Living alone is a life experience that everyone will experience more or less, in the process some people are anxious and uneasy, some people are happy and comfortable, different modes of exposure to different lifestyles. In fact, living alone has its benefits, in a life of one person, we will learn to enjoy the solitude, learn to savor the happiness. However, all these wonderful experiences of living alone are predicated on good living habits. So, what good habits should one form when living alone and enjoying a good time?

1. Learn to take care of yourself. Since you are living alone, it means that there is no one else to keep you informed about your food, behavior and routine, so you have to learn how to take care of yourself. The economic foundation determines the superstructure, and the most basic life skills such as eating, resting, and organizing space will add to the building of a good home for us to live alone. A healthy body and a tidy space are the guarantees for us to enjoy living alone. At the same time, we should not only learn to "manage" our lives, but also learn to "manage" our finances. Knowing how to manage our money, we can make our solitary life lively and colorful on a solid foundation.

2. Enjoy solitude. Loneliness is the biggest enemy of living alone, but it is also the best friend, and the difference between these two relationships depends on your attitude towards loneliness. In the solitude in the anxious restlessness, is because did not overcome the loneliness, was dominated by it, so experienced a bad experience of life. Thoreau said in "Walden Lake", "God is alone, but the devil is always ganging up", try to enjoy the solitude, in the solitude can also get high. The loneliness we want is the loneliness of being undefeated and honorable.

3. Learn to think. A book gentleman said above to enjoy the solitude, in fact, in the process of living alone to enjoy the solitude is the process of thinking. There is no interference from anyone, and there is enough personal space for us to calm down and think. Of course, the thinking here is not thinking about what to eat or what to play, but thinking about life, thinking about emotions, and even thinking about philosophy, and to be in the thinking to grasp the accurate scale, the sky is the sky thinking into a fantasy.

4. Reading habits. In fact, the reading habit is something that should be present at all times, but in solitude, reading is the ideal way to overcome loneliness. This way, simple and not seem rough, gentle and connotative, can let you swing in the sea of knowledge and enjoy the good time. A cup of tea, a book, a period of time, these beautiful states can be achieved when you amble along reading.

5. Cultivate an interest. In solitude, cultivate an interest, can make life more colorful. Sometimes, digging is not necessary to find the blue sky, as long as they are interested in, painting, writing, cooking ...... the digging of these interests to cultivate, it is not only a skill, but also can make our life full and rich.

6. Enjoy life. No matter which state we are in, our purpose is to live, and the purpose of living is to enjoy life. In living alone, learn to smile and face everything with enthusiasm. Exercise, take care of your plants and flowers, meet with friends, and travel with your family. ...... Living alone is not about isolating yourself from the world and getting along with yourself, but also with your family and friends. It's about being alone as well as living. I watched a Japanese documentary about not living alone, but living, the daily life of two old people, tending to flowers and trees, writing slogans in the garden in a cute language, cooking a delicious meal, such a life, is really enjoying life. Sometimes, enjoying life doesn't necessarily require a rich material foundation, when facing life with a good mindset, every moment is being enjoyed.

7. Maintain self-discipline. Self-discipline means turning passive into active by demanding it from yourself without anyone being there to supervise you. In living alone, we are basically wild horses out of control, so we have to find the right grassland through self-discipline. A self-disciplined person, exactly how cool, have a book gentleman to tell you a real case: have a book gentleman's a roommate, in a semester, never sleep, never stay in the dormitory drunkenness, class class, no class bubble library, go out to play on weekends, a semester down, people read more than 30 books, almost all over the city attractions, and the scholarships according to the full acceptance. Therefore, a self-disciplined person, the richness of his life, is not self-disciplined people can not experience. Self-discipline in solitude, the same can make life just organized, rich and full.

All it takes is 21 days to develop a habit, and all it takes is perseverance. Having a good habit can make even living alone a blast.

Good habits affect a person for life.

1. Cleanliness and hygiene, when you live alone especially pay attention to the cleanliness and hygiene of the dormitory, don't think that you live, and other people don't know it is lazy, don't want to clean. The lack of hygiene will lead to the growth of bacteria, which will affect your health.
   
   
2. Early to bed and early to rise, the day's plan lies in the morning, the morning is the time when we have the best memory, we can read books and improve ourselves. Going to bed early will make us get a better rest and have more energy to work and study.
   
   
3. Exercise, regular exercise will improve your body's immunity, and mental state. It also leads to a stronger metabolism.
   
   

It's easy to be born, it's easy to live, and it's not easy to ensure a certain quality of life. People in the net state society should develop the following four good habits:

01. Early to bed and early to rise. A person who can combine the rhythm of life with the meridian, the body will not be too bad. Good health is the material basis of life, and it has nothing to do with money.

02. Curiosity Quotient. A good-looking skin is one of a kind, but an interesting soul is one of a kind. A person who has no curiosity about everything is already dead, and living is also a walking corpse. To maintain a good curious mind, in order to activate the interesting soul.

03. appreciation quotient. Each person is a mirror of the other. If one feels that the people around him or her are joyless. The first person one should review is oneself. Because one is the mirror of others.

In other words, if you find others uninteresting, they will also find you uninteresting. The solution to this problem is twofold.

First, we should be good at finding people who resonate with the same frequency, and not waste time and energy on occasions when "chickens speak to ducks".

The second is to greatly enhance their appreciation quotient, as long as you know how to categorize people, know how to target the appreciation, they will become not hate people, over time, their appreciation quotient is improved, you will find yourself around the people, are all lovely, and even because you will also become more lovely.

04. Sensitive number quotient. Now and in the future, it is bound to be a society surrounded and flooded by massive amounts of information, and without scientific numerical thinking and human logic, one's life will get worse and worse. Because:

0401. In the network society, smart people are getting smarter and smarter. In the future era of the Internet of Things, and then in the future era of the Internet of Letters, people with a low numerical quotient, in addition to becoming other people's broilers, can only become the share of leeks, there is no third possibility.

0402.In the net state society, stupid people are getting stupider and stupider. Dead knowledge, do not learn from the world, only to find the maiden, it seems that the knowledge to obtain convenient, in fact, is their own become lazy. Live learning, listen to the master's mouth version of indoctrination, seems to be very diligent study, in fact, is becoming brainless.

In short, character does not necessarily determine destiny. But habits definitely determine destiny. A good life begins with good luck. Good luck, from the formation of good habits.

Three feet of ice is not cold in a day, anything is a cause and effect, and the development of things is not overnight, there is always an accumulation process, from quantitative change to qualitative change. Anything is a sign, but we can easily let down our guard and lack the necessary discovery.

A person's habits determine a person's behavior, the long run down is bound to cause certain results, for example, some people are always lazy and unmotivated, a short period of time may not see anything, and a long time, and the gap between peers will be widened.

In the same way a person must have held on to good habits for a long time and made a lot of quiet efforts before he got ahead.

No matter when, we can change ourselves, as long as we want to, we can always change ourselves, to achieve a better self, the most afraid is that we are afraid of suffering and tiredness, to make excuses for their own failure, that really is no way.

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The path that others have taken and are taking can be a lesson for us. Usually a person tends to show these signs before they get ahead, see if you have them?

Begin to awaken, become active and proactive

Ideas determine the way out, if a person does not want to change, then outsiders say more is not much use, just a waste of words, a person if their own is particularly greedy for comfort, not much pursuit, it will always be in their own comfort zone, such a person is very difficult to make progress, sooner or later will be left behind by their peers.

Before a person can make a difference, that person has to want to become capable in his or her own mind, to begin to wake up and not want to be so comfortable, before that person will make a change in his or her actions.

No more looking left and right, but focusing on a certain direction

A person is most afraid of is high and low, not willing to start from the small things, all day long fantasize to be able to do big things, what opportunities can make their own one step to heaven, this is nothing more than a delusion and fantasy, if you even small things will not do, even if the opportunity to come, you can not grasp.

When a person starts to stop looking to the right and to the left, and starts to focus on a certain direction, it means that such a person knows his or her direction and goal, and is willing to put it into action, and the whole path of life will become smoother and smoother.

Active in gathering relevant information and passionate about learning

It is not desirable for a person to become productive and work behind closed doors, but rather to keep up with the times, which requires constant learning all the time and updating one's knowledge system and systems so that one can stay energized.

When a person begins to become very active, wanting to do a certain thing, always actively collecting relevant information, passionate about learning, it means that such a person is accumulating his strength, and in time, will be able to practice a skill.

Doesn't give up easily when he gets frustrated

A person no matter what kind of road, will not be smooth sailing, our ability is also in the frustration of refining out, encountered problems face to face to solve, and then enhance our ability, if a problem is to give up lightly, it is difficult to get the refining.

Perseverance is one of the signs before a person becomes capable, encountered setbacks, not afraid, frankly face, review the situation, make changes, continue to move forward, focus on their own goals, in a certain direction of deep plowing, in order to ultimately achieve their own achievements, this is the invariable law.

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We often say that details determine success or failure, and habits determine the future. A person who is successful is bound to be highly demanding of himself and has many good habits, such as a high degree of self-discipline, always maintaining the habit of learning, being free of distractions, and being willing to plumb the depths of his own direction and specialty.

Success never comes overnight, it's all the result of time and effort. We can't choose to be comfortable just because we're afraid, or we'll be eliminated by society sooner or later.

We have to walk our own path, because the results are also to be borne by ourselves. We have to start awakening, plan the future for ourselves, develop some good habits, and stick to them.

The questioner's question is awesome. One lives a life of good habits and enjoys solitude in order to be more attractive and shine when in a crowd.

Nearly 40% of a person's daily activities are the result of habits, not active choices. Even if a habit seems to have little impact on its own, when multiplied by the time variable, it can have a huge impact on our efficiency, health, economy, and happiness.

Xiao Yi of Little Big Book Joy shares 5 habits that have given her a lot of color, written down with gratitude in hopes that you can adopt them too. Happy White Thinking Day Thursday!

Blue Habit: Reading

I will read at least 1 hour a day.

Fixed time is to read physical books in the morning; motorized time is to read e-books while on the road; and weekend time will be spent in bookstores or libraries for long hours of reading.

Books are different, read for different purposes, and bring me different values. Some books are read to increase knowledge, some books are read to experience humanity, and some books are read to strengthen faith.

Generally need to do the mind map or can be compressed into a dry book, I will look at the physical book, even if it is synchronized to read the e-book as a supplement, but also will return to the physical book, because the purpose of this type of book is to learn, learning to make reading notes, and more importantly, learning to use.

A book from a friend is the best gift of all

Red Habit: Write three things

I spend about 10 minutes a day listing the top 3 things I must do that day.

Everything else is placed in the memo below.

Every morning when you get up you do the three things in order.

If one has three things as a guide, then one has to make special time to accomplish those three things rather than doing them with all sorts of interruptions.

I usually deal with this by arriving early or leaving late to avoid work, or by saying hello to my coworkers, what time is my time, and not to come to me if I don't have something important to do. Actually focusing your time on getting things done with improved results will effectively reduce the time spent.

Green Habits: Exercise

I spend about an hour a day exercising.

Usually in the morning and evening, each half an hour, mainly running, running I will synchronize listening to learn, time flies, but also feel rewarding, after the exercise, I will listen to the content of a text record.

The specific form of fitness is a combination of personal training + KEEP. I feel that personal training will guide you to the correct posture and strength, so that the fitness effect is better, and you can urge yourself to stick to it. KEEP is mainly convenient and more independent.

With both sports, you can socialize in tandem, and through exercise, you can reach out to countless self-disciplined and motivated peeps.

White Habit: Journaling

I spend about an hour a day journaling.

Journaling is one of my favorite things to do. It's very fulfilling to record what you do, what you gain, and what you think in writing.

I usually keep track of these five areas:

What did I learn today? (Who and what did I learn?)

What did I do today? (Did you do three things a day? Why didn't I?)

What did I enjoy today? （What did I eat? What did I play? How long did I sleep? What did I exercise? What did I get?)

What did I think about today? (Thoughts on various aspects of myself, maybe just one sentence, but it needs to be my own)

What did I give today? (What did you do for others today? (e.g., send blessings, give goodwill)

Yellow Habits: Reading Promotion

Now every morning will spend about 30 minutes on reading promotion. The main way to share and spread the book is through the circle of friends and microblogging groups.

I think reading is a very good thing, and I have benefited a lot from it myself, and the benefits cannot be felt by those who don't read for themselves. Someone said to me, "Xiaoyi, you can't just read for yourself, you have to let more people feel the benefits of reading. I listened to them and made some attempts.

I've been doing the Little Big Book offline book club since November 2009, called Little Big Book Delight, which runs offline book clubs at a frequency of 1 per month.

I started in April 2015, formed the WeChat group of the Little One Big Book Delight Reading Club, and conducted online and offline reading activities at a frequency of about 20 times a month.

I started in October 2015, created the public number of Little Big Book Joy Club and share the readings in my circle of friends. Until now, surprisingly, it has lasted for almost three and a half years. We've tried sharing a book a day, reading methods, and the meaning of reading, and we've also done it in many forms, from text to voice.

When I'm with friends, I often ask them how they spend their time and what good habits they have. Once it feels right for me, I take it over and try to adopt it. For example, waking up in the morning with a glass of warm water, for example, not playing on the phone one hour before bedtime, for example, delayed gratification, etc. It's very interesting and very beneficial. This is a method you can try too. May your life consist of more good habits.

Author: Xiaoyi

Proponent and practitioner of the five-color time meta

A friend said she has the best time control of anyone she knows.

2004 Municipal High School Scholar / Read 300 books a year / Wake up at 4:00 / Run 1000km a year / Manage 5 public numbers / Organize 200 + public service events a year

Little Big Book Pleasure Reading Club, recommending a five-color book every day. Follow the WeChat public number of the same name for more exciting content.

It's probably a torture of everyone's attitude and way of life, and a lot of times when you have family and little kids around you have to do it. Should do so. For the family's pay I think how are worth it. And have the opportunity to be alone, that is their own thing, for example, eat breakfast. I think most people would choose to stay in bed, sleep in until they wake up. If you can't resist hunger, you can find yourself something to eat or go downstairs for a nearly midday breakfast. As you grow older, the importance of health slowly you will change this bad habit. Not to say that early to bed and early to rise, you may try to ask yourself to do that. Breakfast is indispensable, do not eat the stomach is not good. Will not stay up late to watch TV and play games, after all, affect the quality of sleep and vision health. Slowly you gradually go back to a normal life. This is the best living habits when you are alone.

Good habits will make a person grow without realizing it, and everything will be in order. Whether it is family or career, it will be more successful and will be respected by most people. How to develop good habits and what kind of habits to develop? The first thing to do is to do the following:

First, you should go to bed early and get up early. Do not think that the adult world to stay up all night nothing, long time to stay up all night will make your body worse and worse, hair loss, dark circles, this is a small matter, the most important thing is that often stay up all night will let you happen to a very serious disease, even more than to take your life, this is not an alarmist, not long ago, Beijing, a often stay up all night to work overtime, a female white-collar workers died of a sudden cerebral hemorrhage! Only 37 years old. So you are a person who often stay up late, immediately the off this problem, from now on.

Second, play with cell phones and surf the Internet in moderation. Especially when you are with your children while swiping your friends' circles. Children also have minds, and their hearts are actually very unwanted, and they will also think that this is not enough to respect them. When you are playing games, swiping friend circles and various videos, please do it when you are alone and have nothing to do, but also have a sense of time.

Thirdly, clean your room often and do some chores as much as you can. This not only gives the family a comfortable environment, but more importantly, it is also influencing the children, giving them an example, and words are better than example.

Fourth, spend more time with your family and children on weekends. Appropriately reduce the number of times you go out and drink and party with friends.

With these good habits in your life, you will find a different you, a better you.

One must make a habit of it.

First: punctuality.

Second: Hardworking and down-to-earth.

Third: Attention to detail

Fourth; WASH

Fifth: Credibility

Sixth: A sense of cooperation

Seventh: Know your nutrition. Eat and move in balance. Like to exercise.

Eighth: Humor

One person life is not an easy thing, the old saying, only the good alone is difficult. Living alone, no one to supervise, no one tips, no one constraints, do things on their own. From this, I think we should develop these good habits: First, develop a good study time. The second is to develop a good habit of doing things according to plan. Third, to develop good habits of physical exercise. Fourth, develop the habit of regularly socializing with your relatives and visiting your parents. Fifth, develop good reading habits and journaling habits. Sixth, more people with a sunny mindset, with positive energy to cultivate the body. Seventh, set up a good short-term, medium-term and long-term work and life goals.

①Good study habits. ②Good habits in daily life. ③Good habits in dealing with others.