My friend's only son got AIDS, more than thirty years old this year, is a huge baby, the moonlight family, in the previous year when the disease is dying, the old father only knew his son AIDS, syphilis complication, body huge thin, life-threatening, in the family, friends, doctors are advised to give up treatment, the use of comfort therapy, the old father still insist, do not give up, treatment, pots of money, and even sell their homes to be cured, at least the family's economic conditions can be, the huge baby! And have medical insurance, finally seems to be the use of hematopoietic stem cell transplantation, the current recovery is good, eating three thousand dollars a month into the enclosure of the drug, and still alive and kicking, but people are more selfish than before, self, borrowing sick, anyway, can not be cured, to enjoy life, for a good car, around the people said to my friend, your son changed the car than to change the girlfriend is also hard, once more than once more expensive, once more than once more than once more than a good, I heard that the recent giant baby child Started to make again, the family three sets of houses, two sets of facade all over the transfer to his name, the parents do not get along, long-term separation for nearly two decades, the old child to death, as if he had reached his wish, the poor old father is over half white, serious hypertension, diabetes, their own are retired, did not buy a car, go out are on foot or riding a bicycle, a Peizi save food and pick up the use of the money spent on the giant baby child! On the body, self-funded college high overdraft credit card overdue, debt collection chased to the home, the old father to pay back the money overnight, work to learn to learn others to do raw, know nothing about it, but also try to show off, stealing his father to buy him a new house as collateral, borrowing usurious goods, things fall apart, and is the old father tearfully out of the clean up the mess, usually look at the hate hate, usually the old father has a disease or pain never heard of it, a phone call to ask for money, and recently hit the old father of five thousand dollars in January, the old father of the old father of a month, the old father of a year. I think some children are born to repay the kindness, some children are born to revenge, tossing, torturing parents endlessly, parents' hearts are in the son since on the son's heart are on the stone, the heart is hard as iron.

That's a great question!!!

The author is an AIDS prevention and treatment professional staff, and in his work, he will encounter many cases of only children infected with AIDS! Among them, this case encountered in March 2017 is also the one that impressed the author the most.

That morning, a pair of parents came to the CDC with his child and approached me with the child's diagnostic report card, saying that there was no chance that this diagnosis was a misdiagnosis, and I said that the probability of this misdiagnosis was very, very low, and basically there was no such thing anymore.

Me: How old are the kids?

MOTHER: Less than 19 years old.

Me: Only one child?

MOTHER: Yeah.

Me: Do you know if he likes to be with boys?

MOTHER: I don't know how he likes guys.

Me: Where does he study?

MOTHER: At a vocational school.

After a while, his mother became agitated, knelt down to me, bawled, eased her emotions a bit, took my hand and said: can you help her think of a cure, because there is only one child like that.

I said that as far as the world was concerned, there was no case of AIDS being cured (Brown in the U.S. was cured, but not with drugs), and there was really nothing I could do about it. It was then that I felt so powerless as a healthcare worker when it came to my own patients.

Then his mom asked me if she could have another one, and when I said that according to state law at this stage she could have another one in the works, his mom cried and said, I'm in my 40's myself, how else can I have one? And bawled again.

So I feel that I have a great responsibility as an AIDS worker to teach the public to prevent AIDS and avoid contracting it.

So, my friends, take good care of yourself and prevent AIDS. There are many ways to prevent AIDS on the author's homepage, so I won't repeat them here, but if you have any questions, please contact us by private message.

It mainly depends on the parents' concepts. If the parents are the people who have fun in time, this is the Buddhist system. If it is to carry on the family line, then hurry to think of another one, or adopt one.

Thanks for the invite. Such an experience is a bolt from the blue for parents. The generation that has an only child is taking a huge risk. In fact, not only this situation, but also the situation of children taking drugs, committing crimes and even accidentally losing their children, all of which deserve the attention and reflection of the whole society.

The focus should now be on what to do. Actually, having AIDS doesn't mean we've lost him. It is still a relief than losing him. After such a change, if he can realize the seriousness of the problem and is willing to return to normal life, we should accept him and give him the utmost care, after all, he is our own child. There is no need to dwell on what he has done.

Further, parents living with a child with AIDS are not contagious with normal contact, taking care not to touch when there is a wound. This concern can be eliminated.

AIDS patients should be treated early and, if immunization levels are well maintained, have a life expectancy close to normal. It can be regarded as a chronic non-communicable disease that cannot be cured, such as high blood pressure or diabetes. For example, the NBA Lakers star "Magic" Johnson announced in 1991 that he was infected with AIDS, 26 years later, he is still alive and well.

So please take it easy, just because your child is infected with HIV doesn't mean you have lost him, what he needs most now is love and understanding from his parents and family.

I'm Dr. Xiaoqian Wang, a CDC doctor, and I hope I can help you.

Hello.

I'm an only child. My child.It's an only child. Same parents.I can understand how you feel at this moment.

The child who has been brought up by more than twenty years of hard work. Having AIDS is like a bolt from the blue for parents. In fact, you can rest assured that AIDS is now controlled by a variety of drugs. Can be controlled for life in the "incubation period" "within, just need to take medication on time. Do not take it lightly. AIDS patients can also live like normal people. Life expectancy is similar to that of a normal person. And common life does not have infectious, you and your loved ones can regard this disease as a common chronic disease can be. There is no need to think about it.

Considering that perhaps more of your stress is coming from the issue of your child's sexual orientation, I think there may be a greater element of curiosity on your child's part, and not necessarily an issue of sexual orientation. Even if it is true that the sexual orientation is different from the norm, there is no need to dwell on it. Children have the joy of being children. As long as he feels like it, why should you worry about him. What do you think?

Let's first look at a report from last year: recently, the CDC in Yuelu District, Changsha City, held a "college outbreak notification and backbone member training meeting". The meeting pointed out that the epidemic in Yuelu District, where colleges and universities are clustered, is serious, and as of April 6, 2017, the number of HIV-infected people who reported their current place of residence as Yuelu District had reached 603, of which 106 were infected by schoolchildren!

Then I'll share a true story. There was a doctor who once received a parent who brought their son in for testing. Their son was tall, handsome, smart and well-behaved, and the parents treated him like a treasure in their hearts...they let him do whatever he wanted. In their opinion, their son is everything to them. His son suddenly had a high fever for the past few days and had no energy at all, so he brought him to the hospital for a checkup. When the results came out, this doctor sent the lad out first, leaving his parents to talk. When the doctor told the parents that his son was diagnosed as a carrier of the HIV virus, his mother suddenly couldn't stand up, almost fell down, and burst into tears. At that moment, she felt that the whole sky had collapsed! At this moment, her son, who was outside the corridor, did not know what was happening inside. The doctor later found out that her son was a gay man who had had sex with someone else without taking any safety precautions!

As the parents of an only child, they all want their children to grow up healthy, for which they pour their heart and soul and hope, "hoping for a child to become a dragon" has become the ultimate wish and expectation of most parents. But when one day they learn that their only child has AIDS, it is undoubtedly a thunderbolt in the sky for most parents!

We know from media reports that in recent years there has been an increase in the number of people infected with HIV through sexual transmission, especially "man-to-man" sex! As the netizen said, "All love should be respected, but please keep it pure". Rational love is something we should promote, whether it is heterosexual or homosexual. We should always wake up their own, keep clean and self-love, or once "hit", not only their own a slip, into a thousand years of hate! There is also the biggest blow is not someone else is their own biological parents! Poor parents, their life's greatest happiness is undoubtedly to hope that their son can grow up healthy, can become a useful person to the society, do not ask how to return them in the future, just hope that he can live a happy, happy enough...

Conclusion, so for yourself, for your parents, for those who love you, please clean yourself up and be a child who treats his feelings with reason! Protect yourself, because you do not live only for yourself, you should also have your responsibility, duty and responsibility!

If it really happens that their only son has AIDS, generally speaking, the first reaction of all parents is to break down and despair, but after calming down, they have to face the harsh reality and think about how to treat and cope with it.
1. First of all, it should be the first to comfort the son to give up the idea of despair to cooperate with the hospital doctors to actively go to the treatment, in order to support him to be strong enough to overcome the confidence and determination of this disease. Because, at this time the patient is in urgent need of family, relatives and friends, especially parents of care and love and understanding.
2. Secondly, is how to prepare the money to treat and live, although the treatment of this disease is free of charge of the state to bear all the costs of medical treatment. However, diet, clothing, transportation and other costs must be borne by the individual, and the treatment of this disease is not a short period of time can be cured, it is a very long-term treatment process, very time-consuming, consuming energy and money is a very test of endurance and patience of the patient and his family.

Answer: the only child has AIDS, the parents' initial feelings than the five thunderbolts, than their own homes fell to the ground, with the passage of time, the feelings of parents to die a regeneration, and then prolonged, parents can not help but be sad; lack of AIDS is transmitted from the West, we Chinese are too kind, unlike those who lied, but also to say three or four, dumping pots and pans, no evidence, fabrication of the facts, forced on other countries, like this should be prosecuted in the West so-and-so country, because this country came out the earliest, and the most important thing is that it is a country which is the first. Those who have AIDS should be sued in the West because this country was the first to come out. I hope that the medical development, early victory over AIDS, hope that this s sick children early relief, so that the parents of sick children early to get the ideal family.

When an only child gets AIDS, it's like a bolt from the blue for every parent, especially for college students. With the openness of sexual concepts in recent years, the proportion of college students falling in love and living together has risen sharply, and due to the lack of education and publicity about AIDS, AIDS has become widespread in colleges and universities. AIDS is unimaginable to the parents' generation, even worse than cancer. After raising their children for more than 20 years, they are suddenly told one day that they are infected with AIDS. One can imagine how heavy their hearts are, and the social discrimination inherent in AIDS makes it even more difficult for them to hold up their heads. There are also some children who are infected with AIDS because of their sexual orientation and male-to-male transmission, which is unacceptable to the traditional parents' generation. Originally a happy family, now the child infected with AIDS life worry, AIDS social discrimination, the child's sexual orientation issues together thrown to the parents who are not prepared for this, this is the same as a fatal chain of blows. It takes time for them to learn, understand and accept this sudden misfortune. Pitying parents, I hope all young people can have a correct and healthy sexual concept, grow up to build a happy life, and treat their parents well, isn't this a great blessing?