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What would you do if a child or teenager with AIDS were to attend your child's kindergarten or school?

Reason tells me to be forgiving.

But when it comes to my own children, I would definitely go to the school leaders and to the school teachers and make my own protests.

What should I do if the situation is encountered?

I think the teachers will be "scared" to work, the children are innocent, poor, need more love, I really hope that there are drugs to help these children, so that they can live and grow up healthy, not to be rejected, not to be cold-eyed, not to be neglected, not to be abandoned.

At present, medical examinations are required for children entering schools, including kindergartens and elementary school, but it seems that there are no medical examinations for hepatitis B or AIDS.

I think that for these children, they should attend a special school that is relatively tolerant. It is a matter of perception, and it is really difficult to convince parents, to educate them and to change the climate of public opinion.

Issues like this are disturbing.

So, as far as AIDS is concerned, I hope that young people will exercise self-discipline, that medicine will solve this problem as soon as possible, and that everyone will be healthy!

In all honesty, I'm having a hard time convincing myself and my family to be at peace with this.

I'm ashamed that I can't be truly tolerant when it comes to HIV, let alone teenagers in school, and I probably can't be tolerant of children with AIDS in kindergarten 。。。。

While I am well aware that children are innocent and know that they need to be loved and accepted.

But please forgive me for being a father first and a regular guy who tries to look at things objectively and impartially second

Although kindergarteners don't need to worry about high-risk behaviors for transmitting HIV, it is inevitable that my child will get hurt while playing at kindergarten, so how can I teach her to avoid contaminating her wounds?

Should I teach my child to keep her distance from her classmates? The farther away from the virus, the safer?

Other people's children are innocent, my own children are equally young and incapable of defending themselves.

What would I do?

If the wood has been turned, if it is the kindergarten where Miaobao is enrolled with children with AIDS, I may not care too much about the reaction of other parents, maybe I won't argue with the school authority to protest, but I may be the first time for my child to transfer to another school, after all, I don't dare to 100% guarantee that my beloved baby is absolutely safe, I can't be scared every day to let my child go to school in an environment where there are dangers and then I can't let my child go to school in a dangerous environment every day, and then have to double-check if my child is hurt, that child is hurt, and so on every day when I pick up my child, which is disrespectful to others, and even less beneficial to my own child's education.

So please forgive me for being selfish, I am an ordinary father, I just want my child to grow up healthy, and my attitude towards any known danger, must be one of rejection.

I'll transfer the kid to another school.

Sensibly, the child is innocent, so I wouldn't go to the school and make a scene and say that the kid is not.

Sentimentally, children are already vulnerable and don't know how to protect themselves, which makes them dangerous and easily infected, and there's no way I'm going to risk my child's life.

So, changing schools is the best thing I can think of.

This really can not ...... children are small, every day at school bumped and touched inevitably, there are wounds will be easily infected. And you think what parent would dare to tell their child that it's okay for them to play with their HIV-positive classmates? It's not good for the child to be discriminated against and it's not good for him, so it's better to send him to a school that specializes in AIDS.

Very much so. While AIDS children are innocent, my child is even more innocent. This is the only child I have. I can't afford to gamble. Because AIDS is not a cold, nor is it hand, foot and mouth, it is irreversible and follows for life. It's like ruining your child's life. It's impossible to worry all day long for your child to go to a kindergarten, you'd rather send him to a farther kindergarten. Transfer to another school.

Why can't children with AIDS go to special schools so they can have playmates and are all the same and don't have to worry about anyone discriminating against them, and even more so avoiding the risk of normal people getting infected, why do they have to be normal children to go to school with them and play with them, isn't that also a form of moral abduction. I'm physically sick and I want to live a normal life, so you all have to be there for me. Lastly, I would like to say that the vast majority of ordinary people do not discriminate against people with AIDS, they are just afraid that they will be infected if they get too close to each other, and that this virus is very powerful and feels just like the zombie virus, so people are just afraid of it. I hope that those who are not afraid will not say that we discriminate all day long, you are also a kind of moral abduction.

It used to be that I didn't mind, thinking that young children with AIDS were innocent and suffered for unscrupulous parents who paid the bill.

But not anymore, I'm a mom and I mind, a lot! Call me selfish, call me unconscionable, but I'd rather be blamed than have my child hurt!

Do not mind is impossible, not I discriminate against them, just their own children are not enough to love, put the child in such an environment, I as a mother I do not feel comfortable, if other parents do not mind on our family do not mind, I can change the school does not have to force people's children do not go to school!

Which child is innocent. But my child is more innocent. No matter what the moral whores say, no matter how kind I am. Doesn't mean I'm willing to put my child in a situation where there is danger.

If this happens, transfer the child to another school as soon as conditions permit, and look after him/her at home while the transfer is being processed.

If this nursery is the only option, I will inevitably inform the other children's parents and together we will ask for a statement from the nursery.

Generally speaking regular kindergartens are not likely to take in a sick person just for the sake of it. And it's a contagious disease patient. And offend everyone. Unless this kindergarten doesn't want to open anymore. They are very strict on disease prevention and control, even if it's a common cold, they will ask you to go home and get well before coming back. Not to mention infectious diseases. Once you find a patient mixed in, the Elements can surely be shocked! They're more nervous than you are. It's a major safety responsibility. So parents shouldn't worry too much.

Thanks for the invite!

I feel that the likelihood of a child or teenager with AIDS entering regular kindergarten and elementary school is virtually nil. Reason:

1. I have read reports that many hospitals refuse to see AIDS patients and advise them to go to specialized AIDS hospitals for treatment for fear of infecting more people or causing panic among patients. This is true of hospitals, not to mention kindergartens and schools that do not know how to take care of AIDS, and they dare not take in children with AIDS so easily.



2. Children suffering from AIDS have to go through pain and suffering every day. Parents will not bear to send their children to ordinary kindergartens and schools which do not have the general knowledge of professional care, and they are even more reluctant to see people look at them with contempt and avoidance.



3. Although we are more or less aware that the main means of transmission of AIDS is through blood, mother-to-child and other channels, children in kindergartens or schools have more nosebleeds, bumps and bruises, and so on, and if they unintentionally come into contact with such blood, they can easily be infected. Furthermore, if the kindergarten accepts such a child, it will definitely alert the teachers, children and parents, which will cause panic and avoid the affected child from a distance, and the affected child's mind will also be hurt. If the kindergarten does not tell the parents and children, once the AIDS child bleeding, the children have no sense of defense, contact with the blood, infected, the parents will never let go.

In September 2006, China's only full-time school specializing in the treatment of children with AIDS was founded and opened in Linfen, named "Red Ribbon School". In December 2011, the Education Bureau of Linfen City, Shanxi Province, officially approved the establishment of Linfen Red Ribbon School and included the school in the national compulsory education.



We call for the establishment of Red Ribbon Kindergartens or Schools, depending on the patient's condition, so that children with AIDS can grow up happily in an environment free of discrimination and staffed by professional caregivers!

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