What do you do if your child is inside a school that your child is in and it's your child's classmate who has AIDS?
Immediately transfer to another school. It's not discrimination, it's protecting your child
Learning without hurting others:The Three Moves of Mencius.
Whether it's my child or not, there's no way I'm going to put the flower of my country on the verge of a known danger, although, kids with AIDS are innocent.
Before there is no effective treatment of AIDS drugs developed, the best way, you can public schools for children with AIDS, the direction of education (skills) ¡ú even if they go to the community, they do not have to be a long time large-scale contact with the crowd of skills (computers, the Internet);
In doing so, firstly, it lays down a livelihood for them, and secondly, it greatly reduces the subsequent safety hazards.
This and 12 year old matricide are of the same nature. The state gives them special treatment but can't demand that everyone has to have to accept it, and as a child's mom I'm selfish, so I wouldn't hesitate to find a reasonable transfer for my child in order to protect him or her, but I wouldn't tell him or her why.
First, eliminate discrimination. Tell your child that he is no different from an ordinary person who has a disease.
Secondly, take the opportunity to provide sex education. There are three and only three ways in which AIDS is transmitted: sex, blood and mother-to-child.
Normal school three. AIDS is not a contact infection. If your children know about it, you should teach them not to discriminate against people with AIDS. Look at the disease with a normal heart.
Such a question, to make a choice, I believe that basically, everyone is difficult, today, let's talk about it! AIDS, is the country's category B transmission disease! It is transmitted through mother-to-child, blood and sex! The most likely way of transmission between students is through blood! Each parent has different ideas, perceptions, responses to risk, prevention methods, approaches, and mental ability to tolerate risk! You can take appropriate measures according to your specific situation! You cannot attack or harm a person with AIDS, who has an equal right to live as anyone else! Parents who encounter such a choice must do one thing, a comprehensive knowledge of AIDS, to master its characteristics, means of transmission, methods of response! I offer you a few options.
1. You are extremely afraid, fear of contagion, can not regulate such psychology, you do not attack, harm AIDS patients, do not spread rumors, you can voluntarily transfer to another school!
2. Parents who are not too rejected, afraid, can calm, observe, try, adapt, after a period of time, they feel that can be prevented, control, continue in the original class, if you can not change, adapt, you can have their own choices, the premise is still, do not, attack, exclusion of people with AIDS, spreading rumors!
3. If you feel that you have the ability to take measures to prevent infection and live safely with people living with HIV, then do what you want to do!
Be tolerant , adapt to a world with people with AIDS, after all there is no cure for this disease!
Sympathize with his classmates, and then just keep the kids at a distance! After all, the means of transmission are just those two, normal contact is not a problem!
I would venture to say that 100% of my heart would have to be to stay away from AIDS patients in order to prevent contagion! But the words would be different!
Although modern civilization tells us that we shouldn't discriminate against such a special group, the truth says that even the person who tells us that we shouldn't discriminate may not be able to do so if you ask him to choose.
This problem is very similar to the case of the murder of a mother reported some time ago, a minor, protected by the juvenile law, the result of the treatment at that time was to take the child home for education, but also to go back to school to study, yes, although no one can guarantee that the child will not be able to be educated, then who dares to guarantee that he will not make mistakes again? Also do not allow others to discriminate against him, isolate him, but also to encourage him, so that he will soon recover from this state of normalcy, that the victim is protected by such a right, then how to fight for the rights of the victim? Where do they come from?
AIDS, for a child, this is also really quite tragic life, this is not the life he wants, this is not every normal person dare to think of life, after all, this disease can not be completely cured to the current level of medical care, but no one is perfect, we can understand his helplessness, but for others may not be fair, although AIDS does not belong to the highly contagious disease, but no one dares to guarantee that the children between the Although AIDS is not a highly contagious disease, no one can guarantee that the children's lively and active behavior will lead to some irreversible consequences of the disaster.
I completely understand the care that the state gives them, but really, if we're talking about getting other kids to integrate with him without reservation, I think that's a really far stretch.
Nowadays, more and more people are suffering from AIDS, from all kinds of pathways, whether or not they themselves are exposed to it consciously or unconsciously, is its inevitable.
What we need to teach our children is that they should not discriminate against others, and first of all, we should not discriminate against others as well as isolate them, and that it is not proper to deal with such a sick person in a way that makes children shy away from him or her.
But again, we can't isolate them, they need our love. This is where we have to tell children why there should be no blood contact with such children, so that they will take this aspect seriously, rather than leaving them to figure it out on their own; you may be able to spot this one for such a child with AIDS, but you can't spot all of the people with AIDS that your own child will meet in the future.
You say what needs to be said, and see how the child himself chooses and in what way to treat his classmates. Children are generally kind, and at this point, what you need to tell him is how to avoid being infected with such an AIDS, too.
Parents don't have to worry too much. Parents can only help their child to walk, you can't walk for him, and you can't completely help him to isolate himself from all the injuries that come from the outside world.
What parents should give to harm from outside sources is ways to let the child deal with it on his own, so that he can use your methods or his own methods to minimize the harm as much as possible.
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