What will 15 AIDS students from Linfen, Shanxi face when they go to university and walk out of the Red Ribbon School?
We are no strangers to AIDS, but ask how many people can truly appreciate the devastation of AIDS on human nature and the torture of AIDS patients. AIDS patients are not all bad people, nor are they all sexual deviants. There are many, innocent people who are unfortunate enough to be caught up in the AIDS population and become deviants in the eyes of ordinary people.
Shanxi Linfen Red Ribbon School is the only AIDS school in China, which was officially approved by the Education Bureau of Linfen City, Shanxi Province in 2011. In this school, there is a group of students who have been hurt by their parents since they were young and are disliked by the society. Although we all know that it is not their fault, we can't control ourselves to look at them differently; although we know that they are innocent, they are unfortunate, but we still can't restrain ourselves to stay away from them. All the helplessness and pain are needed for them to bear. Though among them, there are fifteen students who have been admitted to the university, leaving the Red Ribbon School as a sheltered harbor and joining the society as a river.
These children and how fortunate, society has not completely abandoned them, gave them a hope, a dream, but the road of life, how to go, the children should also have a plan of their own, but also to learn to bear the pain and suffering, in order to their own life goals, to go forward, to work hard.
The dilemmas faced by these children as they enter college are mainly in the following areas:
I. Economic hardship. Most of these children are orphans and lack the necessary economic base. This requires State and social support, as well as efforts by the children themselves to find opportunities to earn some money for their studies.
Second, the dilemma of taking medication and making friends. We know that for AIDS patients, taking medication is needed for a long period of time. In school life, it is inevitable that they will live in a group, and it is inconvenient to take medication, and there is also the problem of making friends. If they let their classmates know about their status, then they will probably lose the opportunity to make friends, and they have to put up with loneliness and isolation for a long period of time.
Thirdly, the dilemma of being respected. Everyone wants to be respected by others, these AIDS students in particular, although it is said that our people are tolerant and charitable. However, the long-standing prejudiced view of AIDS may affect the attitude of some people towards AIDS students.
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Thank you! AIDS has long been feared as a contagious and very deadly disease, and there are no effective drugs to cure it. AIDS is a virus that attacks the body's immune system, causing the body to lose its immune function and die from other diseases that it causes. There are no effective drugs to treat AIDS and no vaccine to prevent it. Moreover, the media's publicizing of the disease has intensified people's fear and caused many people in society to reject AIDS patients.
But fortunately, there are still people full of rationality and love. Thanks to their efforts, many people have changed their views on AIDS, and have learned that simple contacts such as hugging and shaking hands are not contagious, thus greatly alleviating the rejection of AIDS patients. In the Red Ribbon School, teachers and students trust each other and respect each other, but finally one day they will have to go out of the school to a wider world, and all they will encounter is this complicated society.
What kind of people in the society are there, strange and different, red ribbon school is a civilized society goodwill to protect a place, relatively very simple, but the society is always full of malicious eyes to stare at you, not pay attention to, will stab a knife towards you. Out of the school, you must pay attention to those eyes full of malice, beware of them, beware of them, in fact, malice wherever, everyone will be subjected to malice, the key is still to see how you defuse.
Walking out of the red ribbon, after going to university, you must pay attention to protect yourselves, take medication on time, follow up on time, listen to the doctor, talk to your teacher more often when things go wrong, and talk to your teacher in time if you have any difficulties in life, and make sure you have a normal life first and foremost.
You will also encounter some of your classmates alienation, do not understand, and even behind the back of the whispers, but they only dare to do so, cowards only dare to point behind the back of the finger, you do not have to pay attention to them, your life does not need them, you just need to get along with those who are willing to accept you, care about you, help you on the line, they are your real friends.
You need to stay happy, have a positive attitude, believe that there are many people in the world who are willing to help you, believe that so many kind people in the school and in the community have always stood with you, and believe that you are capable of doing everything on your own.
Bless you all! May you be healthy!
You should value yourself more! Regardless of how you are perceived by your classmates, and regardless of the obstacles to finding a job or falling in love in the future, you have to face the reality. Proactively and systematically go to treatment; strictly follow the doctor's requirements to contact with classmates; fight to do well in their studies, return those who have helped them, but also to make themselves strong. It's not scary to be sick, but to be sick at heart. If you don't have low self-esteem, don't get discouraged, have self-confidence, and are willing to work hard, your future will be bright!
Thanks for the invitation! 15 AIDS students have been admitted to the university, and it is deeply gratifying. They are out of the 'shackles' of school and into the big wide world, no longer like the movie "The Favourite" Aaron Kwok and Zhang Ziyi huddled in a corner, they will be greeted with a new life.
However, the joy was followed by contemplation. What kind of 'shackles' would they walk into in the future? The first and biggest pressure comes from the possible exposure of their 'identity', the Red Ribbon School, AIDS, which will be known to all at the speed of one hundred, and the possibility of being isolated, even without roommates, to the point of grouping together with middle school classmates who share the same disease.
Secondly, they will be facing illnesses and relying on medication to stabilize their conditions, which is not a small amount of financial pressure, but even more physical pressure. I do not know if there is any subsequent funding power to help solve the worries.
Eventually one will be faced with the troubles of adulthood, falling in love, having sex, and finding a job. It is unethical and against the law to meet someone you love and not tell them all about your condition, unless it is just a Palladian love, but no one can predict possible future sexual encounters. Giving away one's condition will surely result in the loss of love, even friendship, and a descent into misery from which one cannot extricate oneself.
Personally, I believe that the biggest problem for the future of these 15 students does not come from the outside world, but from within. How to calm their hearts, not be shocked by honor and disgrace, take it lightly and laugh it off is the cornerstone of a solid future.
The subject's question makes me angry and helpless at the same time. These children, as AIDS patients, have been discriminated against since they were young and cannot receive normal attention and treatment. They are born unjustly, but they have no choice; they may have acquired AIDS from their mothers, or they may have been accidentally infected by blood transfusion when they were young. All these sufferings are not what they want to get, nor what they can choose. It is not easy for them to pursue their studies normally with the help of people who want to help them, and they have been admitted to the university, but there are still people who ask what difficulties they will have. In fact, the biggest difficulty is not his and others to his imposed colored eyes.
He is very poor, from a young age can not live like a normal child as happy and free, he is fragile, a bloody mouth, a cold, may let him die, this is not the most critical, the most critical is, he longed for close to the outside world, but the outside world is not allowed to him. These children, admitted to the university, they face, is the panic of the host friends, is the reluctance of classmates close, is the teacher seems to be noble care but the fragile heart of his or her peeled off in the sun under the sun, but thought it was the spring breeze like warmth.
What they face is that although they graduated with honors, once they go out into the world, they are still discriminated against, which is ironic, because they have worked hard to live and have not messed with anyone. It's ironic, because he's lived hard and hasn't messed with anyone, but he's been treated unfairly. I would say that they do not have any predicament, at least the self brought, their predicament is someone else.
Such a child is too difficult to integrate into society, will be ostracized by classmates, social disapproval. AIDS, under normal circumstances is not contagious, but no matter how to believe that the people really too little, who's heart capacity is limited, we all say that contagious with the big slip, if we do not take it seriously, as if we do not know, but also do not take it seriously. We have not heard of this disease here, compared to urban and rural areas which is an advantage, have not been in contact with such patients, did not feel anything, but not too much to comment. Thank you!
Please make it clear what schools those guys are going to, if I had a child I would never let mine go, don't blame me for being hard-hearted because I really can't afford to gamble, I'm afraid of what if something happens and that child's life will be ruined.
谢邀.
In addition to overcoming the fear and distress caused by their illnesses, they have to, firstly, deliberately hide their secrets in their studies and lives, secondly, keep a proper distance from people around them, and thirdly, prevent the spread of diseases/viruses in accordance with medical advice.
All these will put them under great psychological pressure and alienate them from others. Therefore, I personally feel that schools should arrange for them to have proper counseling to help them to maintain their mental health as much as possible.
Although we understand and sympathize, social discrimination is inevitable. If there is AIDS vaccination, it is better, like hepatitis B, there is a vaccine that can fight the virus, and if you work with hepatitis B patients after receiving the hepatitis B vaccine, you will not be afraid. However, the AIDS virus is so powerful that even with a vaccine, ordinary people will still be afraid.
In the face of social pressure, as well as social discrimination against this type of group, many company experience may not be easy to pass, and it is not good to get into some good units, so it is still necessary for society to be more caring and tolerant
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