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What should I do to comfort my brother when he scored only a hundred or so points on the college entrance exam?

How should I comfort my brother when he scored only a hundred points in the college entrance examination? Answer, there is no need to comfort this one. If the younger brother has studied seriously and scored only such a small mark, it is not a question of comforting, but of preparing to applaud! Note that it is not a matter of applauding, but of applauding sincerely. The people who need to be consoled are: the results of the unique school halla, it is very likely to be admitted to Peking University and Tsinghua University, the result is only examined with the University of Central and South China University is not similar to the University; the results of the results would have been very good, can be admitted to the top 20 universities, the result is just on the line of the first book; would have been stable manipulation of this, the result is just into the second book; would have been on the undergraduate no problem, play well can be re-booking, and now only just into the specialty. According to the theory of Multiple Intelligence Structure, your brother belongs to the group of people who can't read, but have special talents embedded in them! The best grades and the worst grades (but could have become a hea, he deliberately did not study, artificially create a worst, that is not here) is actually equivalent! The difference in intelligence between people is not insignificant, but the distribution is vastly different; musicians are musically gifted, mathematicians are logical thinkers, and athletes are physically coordinated! Your brother is likely to be one of those people with potential! He is better than those whose grades do not go up or down, and is not likely to play games and muddle through in higher education, and will definitely not waste his tuition. With good opportunities, it's entirely possible that he'll have a great future! People with grades at the poles are likely to be talented. And there are a lot of middling people who are truly mediocre (again, people who are supposed to be middling, who deliberately don't study, and fake the worst, are not included in this). Answer for reference.

That's not a test, it's a blindfold. With 20+ points in a subject, multiple choice drawing is enough. Then there is no need to comfort. Because, one, usually did not study well, the test is not good, normal, no regrets. Second, all roads lead to Rome, not school material, can do something else. Third, this score, more or less than where to go, less or less than where to go, so, do not bring the luxury or good, prove that you can learn a technology. I was born with a talent that will be useful.

  • More than a hundred points, this is the achievement of the school bully one door, if it is the total score of six doors, either there is an accident, or usually do not study at all, to the examination time to muddle through.
  • If your brother in the weekdays in the big test small test achieved results are not bad (at least all over the undergraduate line), only this time fell defeat, defeat so bad. In the face of his loss, you can tell him: this is just an accident, the sky will come down to the people, must first bitter his mind, this time is the test of his mind and training. This time the doors of ordinary universities closed to him, it is for the door of the famous colleges and universities open to him. The more he retreats now, the farther and higher he will jump. You may suggest him to put down his heavy burden and repeat one more year of study, and today next year will be the time of his nirvana rebirth.
  • Of course, if he went to high school, has been this achievement, it seems that you do not need to comfort, because he has long been through three years of refinement, the heart has become hard as steel, wide boat, that cheek should be honed thick enough, easy to penetrate. Where else would he be hurt, where else would he be sad? Even if it looks like, he mopes, that is only in the play, play for you to see, can not say in the heart secretly happy, after all, the difficult days finally passed, he got rid of. If he's sad about anything, it's that he doesn't know how to comfort you who are sad.
  • In fact, you do not need to worry about him sad, in a very early time, should have realized that he is no longer the material of the study, the so-called boil days, but are pretending to work hard, just do not want to let parents despair. Such days he was able to insist on three years is not easy, showing that he has a tough and kind heart. This valuable quality is not comparable to the score.
  • Granted, knowledge changes destiny, but college is not the only place to learn. How many people did not enter the university door, but still create a brilliant career. Perhaps you should persuade your parents to let go of the only "high school" obsession, in line with your brother's strengths, support his development, which is the best and biggest comfort to your brother.


Thank you for your question.

I feel that in this situation, using the most beautiful words is futile! I thought the most valuable form of consolation would be to help your brother find a path to success that suits him, and let him prove his worth with his accomplishments.

So my suggestion is to consider letting him go to a vocational school, choose a major of his choice, and study it in the following two ways:

1. If you want to continue your higher education, take a high school class

We know that vocational schools can also take the college entrance examination, which used to be called the spring college entrance examination, but is now called the vocational education college entrance examination in Shandong. As long as you study hard, you can also get into some key universities in your province. In recent years, the state has been strongly supportive of the development of vocational education, the year before last, launched a plan to expand the enrollment of one million, the purpose is to further broaden the vocational school students to receive higher education. In the last year, some professional strength of the stronger vocational schools, rated double first-class professional groups, institutions of these specialties are able to enroll undergraduates, these are the gospel of vocational school students. Therefore, as long as your brother is not defeated, still want to compete with junior high school those who study better than their own classmates, by taking this road, there should still be a chance to win.

2. If you want to learn a skill, try to join the center team.

If you feel that your foundation is poor and you have little hope of taking the college entrance examination, then choose a specialty you like better from a vocational school and take the path of learning skills. In our school, students who have a strong desire and interest in learning skills can also enroll in the Skills Center Team, which means that these students have the opportunity to participate in the city, province, and national vocational skills competitions! There used to be a student in my class who knew nothing about cultural studies, and then with my help, he went to the electrician skills center team. Through two years of hard work, he not only won the first prize to participate in the city and provincial skills competition, but also on behalf of Shandong to participate in the National Vocational College Skills Competition, and won the gold medal! After graduation, he was hired by the school as a tutor for the Skills Competition, and then he went to university without examination with the results of the Competition, and now he is working in an enterprise in Jinan with a very high monthly income.

Of course, if your brother misses this opportunity again, it will be very difficult for him to keep up with or surpass his middle school classmates, I'm afraid!

I hope the advice I've provided helps, thanks!

There is no need to comfort, just beat it [teeth bared]. The college entrance examination is only 100 points, the average of a few points, this is not even listen to the lecture in class ah, not to mention homework properly write no. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get the best out of me, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get the best out of me. And not usually have a high level of scores, the test missed, comfort comfort is still the past, the test one hundred points or play with him, life is not only points, there are poems and faraway places.

Really don't need consolation ......

The total score of the college entrance examination should be 750 points, 750 points of the total score of only more than 100 points, in terms of the current college entrance examination paper, discard all the subjective questions do not take the score, objective questions completely rely on guessing can also guess this score, that is to say, as long as you find a person who can write a few words to the examination, test a more than 100 points are not a problem than the probability of scores are lower than the score, this score still need to comfort? I think you should comfort your parents and family, not your brother, as long as the school a little more serious about learning, are more than test this score.

It means that he just didn't bother to study and didn't even get a grade in one of the schoolboy's subjects. How to comfort him? Be silent, let him figure out if poor intelligence or playfulness is to blame. It stands to reason that poor intelligence means he can't go to high school, which means he was mucking around for three years in high school, didn't his teachers tell you that?

Alas, there are no words when faced with such poor grades.

There's no rush, you're still young, you still have potential; you're not stupid, you're just not paying attention; as long as you want to learn, your grades will go up ......

The common people often say, 360 line, line of work, there are thousands of paths in life, do not hang yourself on a tree.

I think that a person's ability is not just reflected in their grades, some kids just can't learn, they can't keep up in any class, and over time the tests are just guessing multiple choice questions. Letting them sit in the classroom for lessons is just torturing them. Some people will ask: that so many years of school is meaningful? Of course there is, the school does not optical knowledge, but also learn how to behave, how to return to society, return to parents, how to get ahead. The most important thing is whether there is a heart of progress, learning is not good, you can do what you are interested in, as long as you do not give up, willing to work hard in the future will be rewarded.

You can ask your brother's opinion, like what to go to vocational colleges to learn a skill, the future can fully support themselves, if you do fine to specialize in the past is not bad. No less than the students who got into college. The college entrance examination is a turning point in a person's life, we must comfort them and give them to rekindle the confidence of life, as a loved one should do their best to help, to support.

The road is beneath our feet, and it is up to us to grasp it.

The reasoning is clear, so go ahead and act on it!

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